Fezirashi : How can a husband love his wife to the extent of insanity?

Sunday, April 12, 2020

How can a husband love his wife to the extent of insanity?

* How can a husband love his wife to the extent of insanity? *

 Interview with an old lady who spent fifty years with her husband quietly laughing.

 * The woman was asked what is the secret to this fifty-year of a quiet life? *
 Was he a skilled cook?
 Or is their beauty the reason for this?
 Or is it the reason for having too many children or is there something else?

 The old lady replied:
 * The peace of married life is in the hands of the woman after the approval of Allah(GOD); the woman can make her home a paradise and on the other hand, she can also make hell. *
 In this regard, do not name wealth, many rich women whose lives are impoverished, the husband runs away from them.

 * The reason for a happy married life is not having children, too many women who have six to seven children and still lose the love of their husbands;
 Many women specialize in high-to-excellent cooking, all day long making new foods, but they still complain of husband abuse every day.

 The interviewed female journalist was very surprised: she asked:
 What is the secret of your prosperous life then?
 The old lady replied:
 When my husband is very angry I resort to silence, but that silence also includes respect, I bow with regret,
 At this point, some women are silent but it contains the element of humor that should be avoided. A sensible person immediately senses it.

 The reporter asked the woman:
 Why don't you get out of the room at such an event?

 The old lady replied:
 Not doing this will make the husband feel like you are leaving him, not wanting to hear anything,
 There should be silence on such an occasion and no one should oppose him until he is calm.

 When the husband calms down, I say:
 Done with your word?

 Then I leave the room because my husband is tired of speaking and after crying he now needs some rest.

 I get out of the room and get busy with my usual chores.

 The female journalist asked:
 What do you do after that, do you adopt the style of speaking?  Don't even have a half-week conversation?

 The old lady replied:
 Otherwise, this bad habit should always be avoided. This is a two-pronged weapon; when you do not talk to your husband for a week, he will become accustomed to this situation when he needs reconciliation with you.  And then this thing will grow into an increasingly dangerous form of hate.

 The journalist asked, what do you do then?
 Old lady speak:
 After two or three hours, I take a glass of juice or a cup of coffee to my husband and say lovingly: Drink.
 That's exactly what the husband needs,

 Then I start talking to him in a normal way,
 He asks am I angry with him?
 I say: Otherwise,
 He then apologizes for his harsh words and starts to talk pretty.

 The interviewer asked: And do you agree with her?
 Old lady speak:
 Of course, I am a clumsy little one I have complete trust in myself.
 Do you want my husband to be sure of everything when he is angry and when she is calm I will not accept her?
 * Female journalist asked: And your self-esteem? *

 The old lady says: First of all, my self-esteem is when my husband is pleased with me and our married life is calm.
 Secondly, there is no such thing as self-esteem between husband and wife,
 * How honored is it when wives and husbands are each other's clothes? *

 👌 * be happy always try to ignore small things*


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