Self confidence

                                                          Self confidence

 

 How can you build self-confidence?

 Here are a few ways you can restore your self-confidence and self-esteem.

 1- Treat yourself as if you are a very special person and there is no doubt about it.  Never underestimate yourself.  Prioritize yourself over your specialty.

 2.  Create positive images of yourself in your mind because cursing yourself lowers your self-confidence.  And whatever you think of yourself, your body will produce hormones in the same way.

 

 3- Try new things in life. Do all the things that make you afraid. Put your fears behind you and move on.  Give yourself this message all the time. I can do everything. It's not impossible for me to do anything.

 4- Never get bored, always be excited about your life.  Because when you give yourself the message that I'm getting bored, you're really going to feel that way.  So whenever you feel bored, message yourself right away that no, I can't be bored because I have a lot of work to do.  That way, you'll never feel bored or lose your self-confidence.

 5- Always try to solve the problems in your life by yourself and do not depend on others that such and such a person will solve my problem. Instead of degrading yourself in front of others before making your own  Solve problems yourself.  You can only become a strong and successful independent person if you stop relying on others.

 I hope that these small steps of mine will help you to solve the big conflicts and problems of your life.  Remember in your prayers.

Corona and poor people

Corona and poor people

Mom ... when will Dad come ??  The girl dragged the hungry exhausted mother closer.

 Dhi Rani(HONEY) must have come ... I have gone to get some food for you.  So go to sleep, when she wakes up your father must have brought you something to eat.

 The mother tried desperately to put the baby to sleep

 Mom ... I am very hungry, Mom ... You said the same thing yesterday, but Dad didn't come ... The girl closed her eyes and barely opened her eyes.

 The mother wiped her eyes with the plow of her handkerchief without answering ... The father sitting outside the door looked at the sky with wide eyes ..

 I will go and find my father .. The girl said while trying to get up ..

 Neither Dhi Rani nor .... don't go out.

 Why mother ???

 If it comes out, it will be Karuna ...

 What is that, mother ???  The five-year-old girl looked at her mother in surprise.

 It is a disease, Dhi Rani .. If it starts, the servant may die ..

 What happens when you die, mother ???  The girl asked her mother in confusion.

 When a servant dies, Lord calls him to Himself.

 Mom ???  The girl called her mother again after a while.

 Say yes ...

OH Lord, if i will die, then i  will not feel hungry ??  The girl looked at her mother with questioning eyes.

 The mother pulled him to his chest ... The father, sitting outside the door, looked up at the sky and spoke with folded hands.

 My echo is the Lord ....!

Lock down and my condition

 * Lock down and my condition *

 "I love you and the children dearly. I know you guys are in dire straits, starving, but I can't do anything by sitting here. All I can do is stop eating and drinking so that I can support myself."  Let me feel with you ... "  😭😭😭

 This was the letter that put the management of Central Jail Karachi(city of Pakistan) in trouble.  The prisoner who wrote the letter had gone on a hunger strike.  Despite the administration's efforts, it could not end the hunger strike and informed the higher authorities, after which the inquiry into the matter came to a young police officer.

 This story was told by a police officer ...  According to the police officer ...
 When I read the letter, I became restless.  He took the file to his house and showed the letter to his wife and she started crying.
 I read the prisoner's file, he was serving a prison sentence for robbery.  Surprisingly, those whose house was robbed filed a case and did not come to the police station. Everything happened on official complaint and the accused was convicted.

 The next day I went to the prisoner's house in Malir(city).  His wife and three children lived in a one-room tin-roofed house in Malir Khokhra Par.  The courtyard had a kitchen with a stove in one corner and a washroom and toilet with a bucket and bricks behind the sheets in the other corner.
 When I asked the prisoner's wife for details, she said that he was driving a donkey.  His donkey was shot dead during the bad conditions in Karachi.  He looked for a job for several days but could not find a job.  The children were starving, the people of the neighborhood were helping but for how long ...
 When he got more annoyed, I told him to bring rations from somewhere or I would kill the children.  He left quietly and then in the evening came the news that he had been arrested by the police while committing a robbery.  He is not a robber, I made him a robber.  The woman was crying.

 The condition of the house testified to the woman's statement. I left and went to the house where the robbery had taken place.  I was blown away when he told me the details.
 He said there were women in the house at noon, the man entered the house with a pistol and asked the women to gather to one side.  The elderly lady said, "Don't tell anyone. Jewelry and money are in this closet. Take them."  But he said I don't want money, I don't want to be rude, so don't make noise and just tell me where the kitchen is, the housewife said they told her the kitchen with surprise and anxiety.  The man went to the kitchen, took a sheet from us and collected the rations in the kitchen and left.  He also apologized to us on the way.

 The housewife said that we were shocked and were looking at each other in silence when suddenly there was a noise outside.  When we found out, we found out that a resident of the neighborhood had come out of the house in a suspicious condition with his belongings wrapped in a chador(blanket) and made a noise.  The housewife and the men of the house said that the procedure and only the theft of rations made us realize that the person was in need, so we went to the police station against the person and did not file a case against him.

 When I called the SHO of the concerned police station, he told me that the people of the neighborhood had arrested him. He also admitted that he had committed robbery and the pistol recovered from him was a fake.  When no one came to file a case, we filed the case in the court in the official complaint and the court punished us.

 I prepared the inquiry report, as well as the statements of the family members whose house was robbed and sent the details to the higher authorities.  The case was re-tried in court, but the man was released on bail within a few days.

 When the man was released, I told him not to do such a thing again and tried to give him some money, but he refused to take the money and asked me to pay him somewhere.
 The man is now a civilian at a police checkpoint near his home.

 How many houses are destroyed by these strikes and lock downs, how many houses are starved and how many robbers are created?  Neither the insensitive rulers nor our judicial system can predict this. ”

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Don't Care about people

* Don't Care about people*

                                                                                    * Best Golden Writings *

 Recently, Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar Sahib started saying in an interview: “This society is very hypocritical. I was a big egoist when I was young and despite my poverty, I never wore used or laundry(used ) clothes.  When I met my father, I told him that I have to sew a coat, so my father gave permission and I took a round-necked coat from a half-suit, which was a big tradition in those days.
 Wearing that coat, I went to my uncle's house and my aunt and cousins ​​asked Fat: "Hey, how did you get the coat?"
 I said,i bought new from market . "Auntie, except for that." But my cousins did not believe me. I swore, but they did not believe me. He went to his aunt and uncle's house, and something similar happened in the air. i was crying ...
 Circumstances were such that no one was ready to believe that Khalil could sew a new coat.
 After reading, writing and working, when I became a member of the board of directors of a bank.
i bought a used coat and everyone asking me about coat  .Sir, what a lovely coat, what brand?  Cloth and stitching are excellent,from where you bought it?

 I said without any shame: "Brother John Linda(used) , I have taken it." But he refused. I swore, but he still did not believe me.  And now I started laughing instead of crying ...

 It is true that this society is a big hypocrite. so don't care what the people think do what you want to do .

Cheat with wife(funny)

                                                  *Cheat with wife  *
                                                                       * Best Golden Writings *

 A woman crashed her Mehran(small) car into another woman's brand new Toyota Corolla

 The woman in the Corolla spoke  to Mehran girl in the north and demanded compensation for her loss.

 Mehran girl called her husband and got the answer that I am very busy so I can't come so you have to settle the matter on your own and save your life by paying the required amount.

 The Corolla Baby called her boyfriend to find out that the Corolla you had given me as a birthday gift had been knocked down by a kindly bastard, so hurry up and tell me the amount of the loss, I am very shocked and angry.  ۔

 In a short time, the boyfriend of the Corolla baby arrives at the scene and the man unfortunately turns out to be the husband of Mehran girl. :)

 What happened after that had never happened to him before ...

Ramdhan Kareem

Ramdhan Kareem

The month of Ramdhan is that in which was revealed the Qur'an, it's guidance for the people and clear proof of guidance and criterion. (Al Quran)

Ramdhan does not come to change our schedules, it's come to change our hearts.

May this Ramdhan be the one where we get closer to our creator, and come this month with strong IMAN(Faith).


Ramdhan is not a temporary increase in religious practice, it's a glimpse of what we are capable of doing every day.


Make dua as much as you can it's Ramdhan the month of forgiveness and Blessings.


Ramdhan is about the breaking bad habits not putting them on pause.


Ramdhan is like a rare flower that blossoms once a year and just as you begin to smell the fragrance it disappears for another year.

A tiny percentage of fasting is about not eating or drinking, the rest is about coming close to Allah.



Ramdhan is time to empty your stomach and feed your soul.


So be ready and try to close to your LORD.

Respect your Teachers

*Respect your Teachers*

Golden Text

 Students say, Teacher, Sir, you play cricket with us.
 5 balls for Teacher scored 2 and in sixth ball clean bowled.
 The students shouted loudly,
 and the teacher asked the class who wanted me to be out on the ball?

 All the bowlers raised their hands
 The teacher laughs asked how am I a cricketer?  Everyone said bad.....

 Asked how I am a teacher, the answer was very good.

 The teacher then laughed...

 Not only you, my lot of students from all over the world, many of whom are against my ideology, but they testify that I am a good teacher.
The secret I was not as good a student as I am a good teacher. I always had difficulty remembering lessons.  It took time to understand and understand things, but can you tell why I am still considered a good teacher?

 Everyone said Sir, you tell why?
 The teacher said, “Literature, Respect"

 I remember once I was helping my teacher prepare an invitation. He pulled out ice from the freezer, there was nothing at room for breakage. The teacher left the room for work.  I broke the ice with a hard hit of my hand and after that, I hit ice on the wall dramatically.

 When the teacher came into the room and saw that I had hit the ice wall, they scolded me. When did you get the sense that the snow is broken? I listened to their scolding quietly.

Later they mentioned this fool in many places Shakes his head like an idiot.

 'They still do not know that I broke the ice'

 I did not tell them true because he was handicapped, and in their absence, I broke the ice when I was young, but when it came to their disability, I thought that it would not make sense, I didn't want to underestimate him, So I made a foolish move to hit the ice on the wall and listened to their scolding for a long time.

 And every one of you guys who was shouting to each other and instructing beat the head of out,
 Winning is not everything, losses open the path to winning in life. You will certainly grow in strength with your teachers and parents but if you want to win the most in life, do not try to win over your teachers and parents.

Sometimes you have to lose something to find something. Never hurt your teachers and your parent's heart. Always respect them because your success is under to their prayers.

Golden Text

*Encouragement*

Golden Text

Before the operation in a  hospital, the nurse entered the room and placed a bouquet of flowers on the table, examined the patient's condition and asked the patient's operation name,
 The patient said "Dr. Ali" ...nurse shocked
  hearing this, said with astonishment and astonishment.
 "Is Dr. Ali ready for surgery ???
 The patient said ...  Yes, that is exactly the operation.
 The nurse heard this and said:
 how it is possible ...  !!!
 He is a world-renowned surgeon. he Doesn't give time to anyone so easily. there is a lot of patients who are on the waiting list from the last month  ... He Does have 100% success in every operation?
You are lucky that he is ready to operate you.
The patient was feeling very good nurse can realize his relaxation from his face.

 Shortly thereafter a successful operation took place and the patient left the hospital in a healthy state.
 In fact, the woman in the room was not a nurse but a psychologist whose job was to awaken hope before the operation to eliminate any hope that the patient might be completely calm, mentally.

 That is why she would become a nurse in the room and make the operation doctor famous and successful, which the patient would be satisfied to hear.
 Experts have proven that successful treatment can also help give the sick a life expectancy ...  And in this way, the weak spirit can be awakened in the atmosphere of fear.

 The same principle has proved useful in other fields too.
 Removing negative thoughts with positively aware thoughts of disappointed people in life restores their lost peace.

GOLDEN TEXT

                                   GOLDEN TEXT 
                              *HONOR*

When a balloon hits your mouth, what about angry?
 You put so much air into it and multiplied it by the volume that it exploded.

 This is exactly the case for some people when you give them more respect than their status and sit them on your eyelids, because of the small capacity.  they burst into getting more respect and love and hurt you.

When you try to put someone on your shoulder they will climb over your head, every man should treat according to his position.

Don't honor anyone so much that your own honor is lost.


 That is why it is said to be "gracious" with those who try to avoid its evil.

Don't think anyone can take away your livelihood as much as it is written in your destiny.

 So do good with the people but hope for the reward from your Lord and not from the people.

A little boy and mobile phone

                                A little boy and a mobile phone
                                 .Golden Text.

        A primary school teacher gave classmates classwork that all children write an essay,
                                              "What they want from God."

 All the children wrote the essay ... That teacher started checking all the children's articles at her house while an article disturbed her ...
 Her husband was sitting close to her and seeing her tears, he asked what happened?
 Teacher Bid Read this article This is a child wrote:
 The husband begins reading the article ...
  "God, I want to be very special to you today. Oh God, make me a mobile phone, I want to be a mobile, I want to live like a cellphone in my house ... I want to be very special by replacing mobile.  I want to be with my parents, siblings, I want to be the focus of all the family, no one will scold, beat me, and it will separate me from myself.  The same will be used with caution as they use mobiles, and when the phone goes down, so does my little trouble.  Go.
 I will also be the focus of my father's attention as he lets the mobiles come from the office, looking at him everywhere at home, no matter how tired Abu is, he will only pay attention to me,
  I want my mum to be as attracted to me as she is to the mobile, no matter how upset and angry she is.  And instead of ignoring me, she'll be attracted to me.  They will laugh at me and laugh.
 And my brothers and sisters who fight and quarrel with me will continue to be around me after I become a mobile. For me, I will pray for Amy Abu, thus everyone will be attracted to me and in the end, most of all,  Everybody is upset and angry because of me so once I become mobile I will be able to keep them all happy.
 Oh my God, I didn't ask for more than you just wanted to make me a mobile and replace me. "
 The teacher's husband sadly looked at Begum and said, "Oh my god, how disappointed the child is!  How bad it is with the helpless in her house by her parents and siblings.
 The teacher looked at her husband in the eye and said that this article was written by "our own child" ...

 This story ended here, but it wasn't just a story.  We are becoming far away from our parents, siblings, and children.  We spend more time on mobile and computers.  Isn't it better that we pause for a minute and look at our routine to see who we are not able to spend time with and correct our routine?  Spend time with humans, out of machines ...

بہترین سنہری تحریریں Best golden text2

* Best golden text *

 "It happens"🤭😊
The group was standing in the fourth rak'ah(prayer) during the Isha(Muslim prayer).  There was silence in the whole mosque when suddenly the boy's cell phone stand behind me started ringing.

He quickly pressed a mobile button from the outside of his pant pocket so the sound went off.  As we sat in the trunk(position in prayer), the boy realized that there was a slight noise coming from the mobile.  Maybe the call was not cut, but the rescue button was pressed.  As soon as he sat down in the trunk, he pressed a button to cut the call, but luckily the speaker turned on.  There was complete silence in the mosque, so the sound of the mobile speaker echoed throughout the mosque.
,
Hello Jan(honey), Angry yet?  Why don't you speak

Jan(honey) please talk once.  Promise will no longer fight.

In fact, I have nothing to do with my cousin, I went with him for some work, then ate round gossip where you saw it.

Jan plz...

The boy looked helpless but neither the call cut nor the speaker went off.  .Molvi(Imam of Mosque) finish the prayer quickly and the boy ran outside.  Behind him, his father, I also went out, holding hands instead of wearing shoes.  Don't know what happened next
...
The result: place the mobile off in the mosque.  Thanks

Excellent golden text بہترین سنہری تحریر

Excellent golden text

 The Arab people were very famous for luring caravans and passengers.  They used to hide in the jungle of a forest or garden in their area and would rob people of the way and show their power.
 In ancient times, a convoy consisting of women, men, elders, and children was passing through an area of ​​Arabia, where localities had already been ambushed by bandits.  As the caravans approached them, they were attacked and after robbing all their belongings, their two unmarried men were killed in an attempt to resist the passing caravans and wielding swords.  Celebrating escapes.
 The poor caravan went on the footsteps of their caravan sailors mourning the death of their loved ones.  But no one cried out to them, nor did anyone raise their voices.
 After a few days' journeys, the convoy stayed in a desert for a night out.  The women in the caravan started cooking, and the men began to arrange firewood around the fire.  It was nighttime and the flames could be seen very easily from a distance.
 Some hungry horsemen saw the fire burning and came to it. Now call it fate or the game of power that the horsemen were the only bandits who robbed the caravan first and then killed two of their men.  ۔
 All these masked robbers went to the caravan and said, "We have gone astray, and are very hungry. If we get some food and a place to rest for a while, it will be very rewarding!

 The salamander immediately ordered his people to .. "Soon the guests should be addressed and no negligence should be shown in this regard because the guests come from Allah's mercy.

 When these robbers had eaten well and relieved their fatigue, they would go and tell a salvo convoy, "Of course, if we had not been exposed to our faces and you would have known us, you would never have been able to do so for us.  You don't know who we are ?? "
 The caravan of smiles said, "Blessed, indeed, you have covered your faces with the veil and it is dark at night. But how can I forget the hidden faces inside your veil? You are all the same."  Who had robbed us first and then killed two of our men, one of whom was my own brother.

 The robbers were shocked to hear of the caravan and said, "Then why did you treat us so well after knowing everything?"
 The caravan said, "It is a matter of our own destiny. We were your guests that day, you could have done to us, but today you are our guest, what we could have done to you.  God is seeing all that He will reward Him!
 Brothers and sisters!  "It is easy to adopt religion and to do great things of Islam, but it is a difficult thing to take the world and lead the way through the pattern of our character, but this is the real religion and this is real humanity."