DON'T DELAY MARRIED

"DON'T DELAY MARRIED''  

*True story*

When I came to Saudi Arabia for work, I was very happy because every Muslim wants to go to Saudi Arabia because there is the house of Allah(KABAH) and Prophet Mohammad PBUH  Mosque as well. At the starting time, I was in a difficult situation because didn't know the Arabic language and the atmosphere also different here. One of the good things was that I got along with good friends and they helped me a lot. I already had the skills of a painter.  I thought of doing the same work In the beginning, I got some work on a daily basis and it was great for me because I had been learning the way how they work. I did the same few days and then slowly slowly I took a step forward and started my own work with my friends. We were four friends, Everything was going well then one day I got a call from my mom from home.

  My Mom told me that, we have found a relationship for you, Now come to Pakistan as soon as you can and get married.I was very surprised I had to tell mom how fast it is, yet I could not be a better position nor do I have enough money to spend my wedding. But my mum was reluctant to accept that she was already in old age and said I want to see your marriage in my life. She said When you will get married Allah(GOD) will increase your wealth. she said that we would borrow money from someone and then return it step by step. Well, I obeyed my mommy, I was the youngest in the house and it was the last marriage in our house.

A few days later I bought a ticket and went to Pakistan.  My brothers came to pick me up at the airport. When I reached home, everyone was so happy to see me. Everywhere was an atmosphere of happiness, everyone was busy preparing for a wedding and it was looking great. I also started shopping for myself.

Days went by in preparation for the wedding. Finally, the day came when I was married, everyone was very happy at the wedding, all the wedding arrangements being done very well.

 The first night when I went to my wife, she was very frightened, seemed weird. Well, I asked my wife to tell me something about yourself. She was very shy about telling herself, and of course, at that time any girl reacts like her.

 As the days have passed  the relationship between our two spouses started to grow, Our love for each other was growing, I started to feel very much inside and respect her .but, on the other hand, my mom and me were upset because during the wedding, we  had taken a lot of money borrow, now my Mom was wondering what to do. I said no matter Amy Jan(mom), I will work back as soon as I go And everyone's money will be return as soon as possible.

As my vacation time approached, my heart and my wife's heart began to feel sad because I was not well settled so that I couldn't take my wife with me to Saudi Arabia. When the day came, my wife was very sad and crying its love, But I was telling her that everything would be fine and I would call you as soon as possible.

As I arrived at the Saudi-based airport, my friends were there to rescue me, thank goodness that those days we had work going on. I go to work the next day. We had only one contract at that time, But I needed more work to pay off my debt.   My mom and I were also a little worried about how long the money would be together.  I used to go to the Daily Work, but I could not collect so much money faster.

Every day I prayed to  Allah(GOD), "Oh Allah would do something good so that I could collect money and take away tension from my mom''. I used to pray this prayer every day. One day I went to ATM withdraw some money from my account, So what do I saw, I have enough money in my account and I didn't know where the money came from. I thought, maybe it has been helped by Allah. Well, I was happy and withdrawal money, now I got some money and feel relaxed.

Within a few days, I got a lot of good work as well. I had three to four contracts at one time and didn't know how I got that much money in just a few months and return all dept. On  that time I realized the advice of my MOM

                               “When a man gets married, Allah extends his provision’’

The Moral of the above story is a man should get married on time. Don't think that I'm unemployed, I don't have money when I get set up and then I will get married. because no one knows when he will be stand. Maybe He seems to have lost his entire youth in this struggle and reached the age of 40. you should get married as soon as possible and believe in Allah(GOD) and work hard. You will also get the sustenance of your wife and children as well. Just believe in GOD and work hard.

 I have gone through this time and I am very happy today my wife and children too. My family also visited to me.